We absolutely loved spending time on EroticAds—and we did NOT expect to say that at all!
At first glance, this site doesn’t look too chic. It’s not as streamlined as SwingerProfiles, but don’t let that put you off. There’s a great sorting algorithm right on the front page that lets you find out how many people are in your area in your preferred categories. If you are eager to hook up soon, this is a great place to do it.
We should mention the fact that during our EroticAds review, we did find that more people on this site were looking for fast hookups rather than romance. If that’s something you’re into, you’ll be absolutely satisfied with EroticAds.com. This is a site that wants to get you connected, fast.
The good news about that is that everything about this site is fast—fast loading times, fast responses, fast sorting, fast dates, fast closes!
Our Results From EroticAds.com Over 3 Months: Is EroticAds.com Worth It?
During our time on EroticAds.com, we sent out 300 emails to different couples in our areas. We were surprised at how easy it was to find that many couples we wanted to hook up with!
We got back an impressive 201 responses—if it weren’t for the phenomenal response at SwingerProfiles, we’d have been absolutely stunned. Then again, EroticAds.com is all about hooking people up, right away.
Of those 201, we set up dates with 30 couples, and 26 actually showed. We had some issues with chemistry with a few of them, we have to say, but that’s hardly the fault of EroticAds. We did wind up going home with 16 couples, and there wasn’t a single one we’d want to undo.
All in all, this was a great experience. Not quite as many closes as SwingerProfiles, but still a fantastic experience that we’d recommend to anyone getting into the swinging lifestyle online.
EroticAds.com: Top 3 Messages That Got The Best Responses
Here’s one example of a first email that did wonders on EroticAds.
Example 1: “Hi, Jamie and Michael,
Wow, it’s great to see two people who love each other as much as you obviously do willing to swing! I love that you put wedding pictures on your profile, it really shows your deep commitment to your lifestyle and continued romance. I attached a picture of myself and my husband—on our wedding day, which we don’t put up on the site for emotional reasons. Do you two meet for dates, or just for pleasure? Either way, shoot us a message, I’m sure we can oblige. Hope to hear from you soon,
Rick and Gina”
Example 2: “Hi, Kyle and Minnie,
I noticed you’re into inviting single women into your marriage. I have to ask, why are there so many pictures up of Kyle and not so many of Minnie? From what I can see, you’re a very sexy couple! I don’t like to waste anyone’s time, so can I just ask if you guys are interested in meeting a single woman for pleasure? Here’s a photo of me. If you’re in the area, I’d love to meet up. Hope to hear from you soon,
Notice how Julie is straightforward and blunt without being obscene. In essence, it’s the same as a message that says “u dtf,” but it makes Julie come across as a person this couple genuinely wanted to know more about. As an update, Julie has met up with Kyle and Minnie four times in person since sending this email.
Example 3: “Hi, Mitch and Kia,
I noticed you two have been swinging for a few years now. I’m surprised we haven’t run into each other before, since this is such a small town. Who knows, maybe we’ve almost bumped into each other a dozen times and never noticed. If you guys are willing to invite a single male into your relationship, I want to tell you right away that I’m clean and safe, and I’m AC/DC. I’m not really into being a bull, but I’ll gladly meet up with either of you in a Closed Door atmosphere or together in a threesome. Later,
In this example, Todd was very straightforward about his boundaries and desires while still being flirty and fun.
What Made EroticAds.com Awesome! EroticAds.com Features We Loved
EroticAds.com has a leg up on the competition by virtue of being pretty much every kind of site. People use this site for hookups, sexy cam shows, swinging, and adult dating. By broadening your horizons, you can meet people in just about every kind of situation.
We also loved that the search algorithm worked so well. Unlike most sites that show you one version of results for free and the second after you sign up, EroticAds.com showed us the same results before and after, and they were great!
Get An Edge Over Other People On EroticAds.com: Secret Dating Tactics
One thing we found worked really well on EroticAds.com was being patient. On many sites it pays to send a lot of messages very fast. On EroticAds, where people are apparently used to being bothered constantly, it was the opposite.
Another thing you can do is fill your profile out completely. The vast majority of especially single men on this website never did!
EroticAds.com: Things We Didn’t Love About it
We found a LOT of couples on EroticAds that only wanted single women. This wasn’t a problem for one of us (Julie), but a bit difficult on the single men and couples on our team.
The other thing is that sometimes the formatting can start to grate a bit. It isn’t that hard to make a really nice website that looks sleek, and EroticAds falls a bit short of that in our opinion.