Pleasing a woman in bed isn’t hard, once you know how to do it. A woman has different turn-ons than a man, but it goes beyond that. Because the anatomy of a woman is very different than a man’s anatomy. She will have certain sexual positions that work better for her. To reach a woman’s g-spot and to really please her, try some of these sex positions.
Woman on top
You lay down flat on your back and she climbs on top, straddling you. The woman on top position is great because she is in control and can go at her own pace. Do not thrust too much inside of her unless she asks. Let her do the work and she’ll climax faster because she knows what it takes to make her orgasm. The mistake most men make during this position is to try to take control or they rush the woman. Relax and enjoy as she uses your body to please herself.
Face each other
Do the woman on top, but sit up and look in her eyes. This is a very intense and romantic move. Place your hands on either side of her waist or at her back to help her grind on you. The pressure from this position on her clitoris, combined with rubbing her g-spot, will make her orgasm fast and hard.
Most men think that the 69 position, where your genitals are in her face and hers are in yours, is for a man’s pleasure. But it can also be a great position for women. As you stimulate her orally, she gets to do the same to you. This can be very sexy to women who enjoy oral sex. Take it slow and give to each other equally. If in this position one of the person involved tend to slack off, it leaves the other partner doing all the work feeling frustrated and dissatisfied.
Men on top
It’s an old position but a good one. You climb on top and take control. One of the best ways to make this happen is to put a pillow beneath her lower back. This will raise her hips and give you more thrusting power. You don’t have to use the additional power to go fast, but you can use it to go deeper. Actually, deeper and slower can be sexier than fast and rough. Try this the next time she thinks you’re going to have plain old sex and see how it surprises her and turns her on.
Knees in your chest
Take the man on top position and modify it by pulling her knees to your chest. This makes her vagina tighter, but it also puts you in the prime position to hit her g-spot with every stroke. Start out slow if you have never done this before because the new sensation can take her breath away. Build up to fast and hard strokes and be aware if her legs get tired. This position can put a lot of pressure on her legs and hips, and she may not be able to withstand it for long.
Have her stand up and prop her leg on the bed, chair, or on the side of a bath tub and you slide inside of her from behind or the front. This is better if you are taller than she is, but if you aren’t she can bend over slightly and you can accomplish this by being behind her. This position will make her weak in the knees, so be prepared to balance her by holding on to her hips. The pressure from her weight pushing down on you as you push back into her can cause a hard orgasm.
Flat on stomach
Put her flat on her stomach and you straddle her from behind. Slide yourself into her from this position and then lay on top of her. The g-spot will be hit each time you thrust into her and the added sensation of feeling you next to her will drive her crazy. For women who like anal sex, this teases her anally as you thrust inside of her slowly, which can get her ready for anal sex after she orgasms for you.
Pleasing a woman isn’t a mystery. Most women take time to turn on, but once you have them going and know what positions to use you will have them orgasm for you in no time. All of these positions are known to stimulate the g-spot and the clitoris (sometimes both at the same time), but your woman may like other positions. Listen to her and her body to modify any of the positions above or to create your own.