Hitting the Club on Your Own
You used to go to the local swinger club with your girlfriend or maybe with your wife, but you haven’t been there in a while. Your relationship has broken, maybe you’re divorced now, but you want to get back into the swing of things. You want to have some fun. Unfortunately, you don’t have anyone to go with; you’re by yourself. What are you going to do? You know that swinging involve swapping partners, so just think that what kind of guy is going to agree with his lady about her having sex with you when he’s not getting any?
Rule One: Don’t Push
Most couples into swinging go into it with the agreement that they’re both getting something out of it. It’s not like, “You can get laid and I’ll only watch,” for most couples. You need to keep that in mind. So when you approach a couple, be friendly and you may even flirt with her, but be upfront about you being there alone. If you try deception, you look like a jerk, and depending on the club’s rules, you might not be allowed to come back. If they ask if you have someone at home you’re trying to cheat, then tell them flat-out that you’re divorced, getting divorced, or broke up with your girlfriend. Most swinger couples don’t want anything to do with cheating, so this might assure them about the fact that it’s just you.
Rule Two: Don’t Argue with Him Watching Alone
You might feel creped out at first when her man is going to watch you plowing her without having anyone with him. You might not be a fan of the idea of him jerking off to the sight of you two together. That’s too bad but remember they get to set the rules, not you, and they might have a rule that neither of them is allowed to have sex with someone else if they’re not both there. If you’re lucky, a single lady might come over to get in on the action with him. If not, well, you probably don’t have performance anxiety if you’re into swinging. You’ll be fine.
Rule Three: Don’t Assume Anything
We don’t mean, “Don’t assume you can get with her.” You might be lucky enough to find such a couple. We mean, “Don’t assume you’ll be able to get with her again.” They might have had fun once with her getting laid while he doesn’t. He probably won’t find the idea of her getting laid while he watches over it. Even she also won’t be much into it; she probably wants him to be able to get laid and to watch him do so while she gets laid. It’s not a hard concept. It’s the basis of swinging. Accept that and don’t push your luck, but feel free to find them next time you have a lady you can bring.