Your Partner Couple
When You Like a Little Something Extra
Sex toys are awesome. Who doesn’t love vibrators? When you use one while you pound your lady, it feels fantastic, doesn’t it? And if she has a hard time getting off from penetration alone, it might be an ideal way to help her get off while you’re in her. We’ve all been there at least once, and it’s always been fun.
However, you’re a swinger. She might want to use a vibrator while you’re at a party. For that matter, you might. But that means you have to break that to any partner couple you might mutually choose. How do you bring that up?
Your lady should be able to handle this on her own, but she might want your support. If she does, let her to do the talking. She should say something like, “I can’t come just by penetration so I brought a vibrator that helps a lot. I want to use it.” If he tells her it’s just because she’s never had it as good as him, that’s your cue to leave that couple in the dust and probably to spread the word while you’re at it. No one wants to be with a douche.
If he takes it well, on the other hand, then it’s time to continue. She can say something like, “I usually put a condom on it to make cleaning up easier,” whether or not that’s true. Putting one on it at parties probably is must. He shouldn’t have any objections to that. Now your lady knows she’ll get the penetration she wants and the vibration she needs.
She’s probably going to be easier. We haven’t met many women who don’t like vibrators. If you know a lot, don’t break our delusions. When you’re making out with her, ask her if she likes vibes. She should know what you mean without you having to explain. We’ve never met a single woman who doesn’t know. When she tells you she does, that’s your cue to mention the bullet vibrator in your pocket or whatever you brought with you. When she shows interest, say that you put a condom over it when you use it. She’ll probably ask why you want to use it, and it’s time to be honest. Tell her, “My wife and I usually use them, and I love how it feels. I thought you might like to try it.” It’s probably less of a loss for you if she turns you down; we imagine you can still get off without a vibrator involved. Still, since it’s something you like, that’s a reason you might not want to swap with this particular couple again. Even if she doesn’t like vibrators because she’s too sensitive, you do like them. It’s not a reflection on either one of you, but it does make your tastes a little incompatible.