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Suddenly Develop a Case of the Latest Animal-Related Flu It’s not exactly the most imaginative excuse, but it’s a classic one, for a reason. All those years spent pretending to be sick so you could skip school and stay home are about to pay off. All right, maybe avoid something contagious as your excuse, but a simple wince or two... Continue Reading

Taking the Plunge You’ve probably done a lot of reading about swinging by now. You know what goes on at parties and that couples usually hook up with other couples, instead of going off on their own. You’ve probably even posted to message boards to talk to people in your area or get the input of experienced swingers on how to handle thing... Continue Reading

Non-Monogamy and You You’re probably new to non-monogamy. It’s something people have done in every relationship since they started dating, at least not with their partner’s full awareness and consent. Non-monogamy is when a couple allows for sex or more outside the romantic relationship of two people. There are many forms of this including... Continue Reading

Swinging and Your Relationship When you first start swinging, you might be worried about its effect on your relationship. You’re probably pretty confident that it’s solid if you’re considering shaking it up like this, but that can change. You might be worried that your partner is going to find someone better than you, whatever “better” means.... Continue Reading

When You’re Swinging, What Do You Really Want? We know that everyone is different. Different things attract different people. Someone might be attracted to that soft-looking woman you see at the diner; others only go for total bombshells. Still others base everything on personality. When you’re swinging, which of these is most important?... Continue Reading

Your Partner Couple When You Like a Little Something Extra Sex toys are awesome. Who doesn’t love vibrators? When you use one while you pound your lady, it feels fantastic, doesn’t it? And if she has a hard time getting off from penetration alone, it might be an ideal way to help her get off while you’re in her. We’ve all been there at least... Continue Reading

Getting Ready for the Party So you’re going to a swinging party in an hour or so. You showered in the morning and also shaved at that time. You should be set, right? Not so fast. We asked a panel of three women about what they like in a guy they hook up with at a swinging party. Every one of them agreed that they wanted a guy freshly showered... Continue Reading

When It Doesn’t Go Well Everyone has a bad night often. For whatever reason, you have a hard time getting it up, or you have trouble concentrating and just can’t find your rhythm, can’t manage to get her off etc. Everyone knows that it can happen. What if such a situation arises at a swinger party? Now that could be a problem. It probab... Continue Reading

Hitting the Club on Your Own You used to go to the local swinger club with your girlfriend or maybe with your wife, but you haven’t been there in a while. Your relationship has broken, maybe you’re divorced now, but you want to get back into the swing of things. You want to have some fun. Unfortunately, you don’t have anyone to go with; you’re... Continue Reading