Are you twenty years younger than everyone in your local swinging scene? Maybe you’re twenty years older. Either way, it seems like it is going to work out well for you as far as finding sex partners is concerned; even if someone likes your lover, what are they going to see in you? Things like money don’t count in your favor.
What Women See in Older Men
As a society, we have two preconceptions: young women like older men for their experience, and young women like older men for their money. What happens when you take the money out of the picture?
Well, still experience is left. Women value men who have experience in giving a woman what she wants in bed. If you develop a reputation for that, not only you are set as far as getting partners is concerned, but even the men will like you; they want their lovers to have a good time, both because they love them and because it means they’re willing to keep swinging. And you don’t even have to consider the idea that women are sleeping with you for your money, since you’re not in a relationship. It’s just for sex.
What Women See in Younger Men
Men aren’t the only ones attracted to younger people. Women too, find younger men attractive. There’s something about relative youth that looks good to everybody. Plus, younger men might have more rounds in them, an important consideration if you’re spending a night together instead of just having sex once. Younger men also make women feel like they’re universally attractive, instead of only to those of their own age.
What Men See in Older Women
We rarely see couples made up of a young man and an older woman in the media. It’s almost always implied that it’s because he’s after her money, wants to be in her will, or something similar. Plenty of men find older women attractive. It’s the same thing that works in older men’s favor with younger women. The idea of experience and worldliness is something that gets some men’s engines going. We know a pair of couples where the younger two idolize the older two, and they all seem much more satisfied.
What Men See in Younger Women
Let’s get the obvious out of the way, shall we? Gravity will not have much effect as she gets older and men like that. Her energy, vitality, smooth skin, great breasts—all those are a great catch to older men. It’s a good thing, since younger women and older men are pretty common pairs at many clubs. The fact that a young woman wants them alone is enough to get the average man’s blood pumping.
Whatever your age versus the rest of the people at the local clubs, you’ll find people who want you and your partner just as you are. Age gaps can be a huge turn-on for some people; you just need to find the right ones.